Tuesday, February 28, 2006
A lame blog, or, My wife is an addict
I'm thinking of organizing an intervention. But the only people that she respects are blog people (can I coin the term 'blog people'?). And these blog people probably wouldn't participate in the intervention anyway.
But I have to admit, there is a certain satisfaction that one gets from receiving comments. And they don't even have to be good comments. I think receiving comments on a blog has replaced having messages on the answering machine as a booster to self-worth.
BTW, I had a mid-term exam today, another reason I haven't posted in a while. Will school ever be over???
Wednesday, February 22, 2006
Thursday Thirteen
1. Pass the asparagus. 2. I guess I've run out of things to say. 3. I'm not in the mood to sing karaoke right now. 4. Let's work through lunch. 5. Thanks for the invitation, but I'd rather stay home. 6. Stop by tomorrow morning around eight, I'll be up by then. 7. Excuse me, ma'am, you're showing too much cleavage. 8. That's OK honey, I'm sure it was more important than doing the laundry. 9. I just need some alone time. 10. Amanda, would you take charge for once? 11. I was going to watch football, but The English Patient is on tonight. 12. I find troubleshooting computers very relaxing. 13. Let's just cuddle tonight. Links to other Thursday Thirteens! 1. Sweet Domesticity (my beautiful wife) 2. Like So Totally (my sister-in-law) 3. Maremagnum (leave your link in comments, I’ll add you here!) |
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Monday, February 20, 2006
Self Portrait Tuesday
That eye has been through a lot. Dozens of sets of contact lenses (soft and hard), glasses, a few serious corneal abrasions, blood vessels growing into the cornea, and most recently - LASIK. Considering all that, it doesn't look too bad. It's a shame about that one unruly eyebrow hair - but that's a discussion for a different post...
Personality Changes
Then something happened. It may or may not be related to a job that I had to take doing commission-only sales. It was the only job that I could get, and I really needed the money. The job required me to pitch products to complete strangers day after day. Well, I lasted for about three months before finding a different job.
A few years down the road, I realized that I enjoy meeting new people and look forward to going out, and to parties, etc. Before long, I start actually needing interaction with people. Then one day, I come to the realization that I am now one of the people that has to being talking to think. It's awful. If I have a difficult technical problem to solve, I just can't sit down and think really hard about it. My brain doesn't work that way anymore. Now, I have to seek out some other person who will listen to me talk about the problem, then usually something will connect in my head and I'll come up with a solution.
And when it comes to meeting new people, just drop me in a room full of total strangers and I'm happy. I'm so extroverted now that it drives my wife nuts. Once after starting a conversation with a guy in Wal-mart my wife asked me, "Did you know that guy?" I explained that, no, I didn't know him, but his sweatshirt had the name of a college that is in a state I used to live in, so I felt like we had a connection. In a New York City restaurant once, my wife was horrified when I tried to strike up a conversation with a guy at another table because he was wearing a jacket that had the logo of a team that I like on it (turns out he wasn't a fan of the team, just had the jacket).
So, my questions are: (1) Do I want to be an extrovert?, and (2) Could I change back if I wanted to?
Oh, and I did take the Myers Briggs two years ago. Sure enough, this time I scored extremely high as an extrovert.
Thursday, February 16, 2006
Thursday Thirteen
8. Airman, U.S. Air Force. Enjoyed wearing camouflage and writing software for expensive equipment. Never had to shoot anyone. Would highly recommend it. 10. Breakfast cook. Trying to get to work at 5am was really difficult, but I sincerely needed the money. Upside - all the bacon I could eat. The purpose of the meme is to get to know everyone who participates a little bit better every Thursday. Visiting fellow Thirteeners is encouraged! If you participate, leave the link to your Thirteen in others comments. ItÂs easy, and fun! Be sure to update your Thirteen with links that are left for you, as well! I will link to everyone who participates and leaves a link to their 13 things. Trackbacks, pings, comment links accepted! View More Thursday Thirteen Participants |
Wednesday, February 15, 2006
following schedules
So I live my life constantly being upset and disappointed with myself. I unnecessarily maintain a high level of stress knowing that I'm behind my schedule. And when I finally do catch up with my schedule (often at the end of a semester) I am annoyed by how easy things could have been if I would have even an ounce of discipline.
I'm kind of like that annoying hero that we have so often in sci-fi/fantasy stories. He discovers some special ability/magic power that he could use, but is afraid to use. There are all these situations where you hope he'll use his powers to make things right, but he doesn't unless he's forced into doing so (usually because someone's life is at stake). That kind of hero annoys me. I always think, "Gosh, if I had that super power, I'd use it all the time to make things better for everyone." So now I wonder if I am like these guys that I despise so much. All this potential, but they just waste it (or at least use it inefficiently).
I know you're probably thinking that my expectations for myself are too high. I really don't think that they are high at all. I think I've lowered them down to what I would consider "average person" level.
I suspect that there are many people in the world that can follow a schedule, not perfectly, but approximately. Is there something different about those people. Can we do DNA tests to find out what it is? Or am I just lazy?
Monday, February 13, 2006
Self Portrait Tuesday
I've got a few things I'd really like to post, but I've been really down recently. This picture sums up how I feel.
My wife has a matching photo on her blog.
Wednesday, February 08, 2006
Christians Living in Elite Neighborhoods
OK, so many of you will probably think that I am judging others and in that I am wrong. Point taken, maybe I am.
Also, even a modest lifestyle anywhere in the U.S. is luxurious for many countries. Is that relevent? Maybe. So the standard that I generally use is where someone is at in relation to their community - the people that they live with and interact with. Living near the top rung of the societal ladder that you happen to be in would mean different things in a big city, a small town, a rich country, a poor country, and at different times, etc. Are there guidlines about where we should be on that ladder?
One last thought; I think the story of the rich young ruler comes down to this - You should be living your life in such a way that you could throw all of that material stuff away at any point, and it just wouldn't be that big of a deal to you. The more stuff you have, the harder it becomes to not have it matter to you anymore.